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Friday, December 02, 2005

爱情有什么道理

(十五年前之旧著)

我想在这世上,最最最难懂的事莫过于爱情这东西吧。它的起因与结束都无法找出一个理由来。

有时看一对恋人,有一方根本是一个无恶不作的坏蛋,但另一方却还是死心塌地的爱他,任谁也劝不了。

有时明明一女子有两男一起追求她:一个英伟,事业有成;另一个却一无所有,地位有着很大的距离,身份与条件也有很大的差别,悬殊之间一目了然;偏偏那女子喜爱的是那一无所有的男子,奈何!

我有一位英俊潇洒,性格条件样样齐全,可说得上几乎十全十美的朋友。贤淑温和的美女一箩箩地排队等他挑选,他却只喜欢一位很丑的女子,更糟的是那丑女的性格与脾气更是令人不敢恭维,但我的朋友却宠她、疼她如女神。

其实爱情根本没有道理,就算是极凶极坏的人也会有人喜爱。

有些女子明知男方有妻有儿,却还愿意一头栽进去当人家的小妾。

也许有人会说爱情是伟大的,所以才会有人心甘情愿爱上不该爱的人。其实不然,爱情只是没有道理罢了,如有道理就不会是爱情了。

就算一对男女如何的不衬,也会有人接受的。所谓情人眼里出西施,那朵鲜花喜欢牛粪,俊男喜欢母夜叉,你又能怎样?当局者都愿意,旁观者又那有发言的余地?

最可怕的,同样也是最可悲的同性恋,也慢慢普遍起来,你说,爱情有什么道理可言?!

x x x x x

2005 后语:

十五年后的今天重读,还是觉得爱情没有道理。同性恋其实并不可怕,当然也不可悲,只是当时年少不懂事,思想与对事情的看法不够成熟,才会对同性恋作出不当的看法。

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14 Comments:

  • At Thursday, December 01, 2005 3:07:00 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    thats why so many pple are hurt by L.O.V.E

    hehe

     
  • At Thursday, December 01, 2005 5:13:00 PM , Blogger dandan...™ said...

    ya..I also dun understand love..

    Old beng..this post of urs is excactly what is on my mind as love all this yrs..

    Love has no reason..
    If there is, its not love..
    its juz liking..

    Eg when u said.."I love him becoz he's my type of guy with big eyes.."
    Well, this is LIKE..
    Like him for his big eyes..

     
  • At Thursday, December 01, 2005 5:40:00 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    爱的确没道理. 就算是隐士也为爱而所困,为情而折腰....唉.

     
  • At Thursday, December 01, 2005 10:28:00 PM , Blogger Elydia said...

    我舉雙手雙腳贊成,愛的確沒有理由。

     
  • At Friday, December 02, 2005 11:35:00 AM , Blogger Old Beng said...

    Xishi
    Dont think you will be hurt since ah cai so good to you.

    lau hero
    你说得对.

    JiJi
    情人眼里出西施,什么缺点都会看不见。

    Dandan
    加油哦,宁缺勿滥.

    关人隐士
    认真嗮命, 顶你不顺.

    Elydia
    或许是命中注定吧,世上那么多人,但偏偏与他相遇、相知、相爱。

     
  • At Friday, December 02, 2005 6:31:00 PM , Blogger blueapple said...

    Nice post! =D

     
  • At Friday, December 02, 2005 11:39:00 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    oldbeng,c ur old entry on the suntec city wan,wah feel like adding my 5 cent worth of comments in sia,the bmw driver also one kind,say he 'chorp' thw whole parking lot... If he come out wan to tok to me,i also come out and i juz ya ya ya to him,then i will say if u own suntec city i no problem lah,if hor u no own suntec city,wait for care which damn parking lot i wan to park,then u cannot find parking lot leh,is ur problem,not my prob leh. then i will add make one dent nvm,at least i taken down ur plate number and c who suay lor... Btw nice story leh,wah,tears in my eyes forming...

     
  • At Saturday, December 03, 2005 1:21:00 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    没有一个完全契合你的人,
    没有一段完美无缺的感情。
    大家合不合适,大家完不完美,都需要双方有所付出,有所牺牲,彼此去创造。

    我的浅见也同意以上这句话的作者。

     
  • At Saturday, December 03, 2005 7:30:00 PM , Blogger sÞ¡ηηєє said...

    the contradicting part is.. love is just a subset of life, but it forms the basis to life.

    *shake head*

     
  • At Monday, December 05, 2005 2:50:00 PM , Blogger Mockingbird said...

    这也就是为什么我们在街上经常会看到丑男与美女或俊男与丑女搭配的情侣双双对对。耐人寻味.

     
  • At Monday, December 05, 2005 4:02:00 PM , Blogger Old Beng said...

    blueapple
    thanks

    gaoxing09
    Some dude with big car think the whole world revolving around him, what to do?

    thechangederic
    Yes, I agree with your point, a happy marriage must definitely have some give and take from both party.

    spinnee
    Some people take love as subset of life but some people take love as the main core of living. Perspective is important.

    emiryo
    来时,别阻挡。
    去时,别强留。
    人生会快乐些吧,我想。

    Mike
    What's your combination? Mine is beauty and the beast.

     
  • At Monday, December 05, 2005 4:04:00 PM , Blogger noeyesee said...

    对我来讲,爱情暂时不是很重要,还有学业没完成。

    但情慾肯定不能少。

     
  • At Tuesday, December 06, 2005 2:06:00 PM , Blogger Mockingbird said...

    My wife and MIL always think i very ugly. My wife is quite pretty. I may not be good-looking. But i definitely don't think i'm ugly ;p

     
  • At Monday, December 14, 2009 9:45:00 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    yeah. love this post :)

     

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