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Tuesday, January 17, 2006

百年之后

(旧著)

常见到一些朋友为名为利,把自己忙得象个机械人似的。日做夜做,辛苦不在话下,仿佛生存着的意义就是工作而已。

更见到一些象 “情圣” 的朋友,一生似乎只为了爱情而活,生活等于爱情。

也有些人做事总是顾虑到别人会怎么看他、说他、批评他的一切所作所为。

其实一生中,每个人只能活一次,一次而已!如果一生只为生活而奔波;只为爱情而活;为他人的看法而活,那他的一生可说是浪费掉了。

有钱无钱、有爱无爱、他人的看法其实都不重要。百年之后,你我他皆成古人。

给你赚到一百万一千万,或只给你足够的钱,百年之后还有什么?

让你找到真爱,生活在一起又怎样?百年只后还不是只剩零?

万物一切由零开始、由零而终。

为名为利为爱情至少还有个目标,如果活着却处处担心他人的眼光,那才是最悲的。

有些人更是可怜,总是担心着明天会怎样,担心这个,担心那个,整天活在担忧的阴影中,真不敢想象日子是怎样过的。

你庸庸碌碌过一生也好,开开心心过一生也好,到头来还是同一个结局。所谓 “到头这一身,难逃那一日”。

我们所拥有的一切东西与记忆,都将在我们死后消失,不留丝毫的痕迹。

有或没有、得与失重要吗?在百年后都一样消失。

人只来到这世上一次而已,最主要是自己要开心。凡事退一步想,生活一定开心多了。

最好能做到:

得即高歌失即休
多愁多恨亦悠悠
今朝有酒今朝醉
明日愁来明日愁

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2006 后语:
重读,惊觉原来我是一个乐观的悲观主义者 (Optismistic Pessimist),一直都是。。。

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8 Comments:

  • At Tuesday, January 17, 2006 2:29:00 PM , Blogger 孺子牛 said...

    得即高歌失即休
    多愁多恨亦悠悠
    今朝有酒今朝醉
    明日愁来明日愁

    很难做到如此。


    得即往前失即拼
    无病无痛才悠悠
    今朝不懂明朝事
    天好要砍落雨柴

    我是现实的悲观主义者。

     
  • At Tuesday, January 17, 2006 2:53:00 PM , Blogger Mickell said...

    Naked we came into this world. Naked we shall leave it. Can't take a single cent with us even if we have billions of dollars.

     
  • At Tuesday, January 17, 2006 6:02:00 PM , Blogger Scarletr0se said...

    OLDBENG!

    T_T

    Your entries all chinese one! I see until I want to sleep!!!!!!

    T_T

     
  • At Tuesday, January 17, 2006 7:02:00 PM , Blogger old beng said...

    老秦
    若要人像我
    除非两个我

    Mike
    Yes, you are very the right.

    Oomiakaoo
    Take this opportunity to learn more Chinese la. BTW of all my current 88 blogs topics, only 25 are in Chinese, so...?

     
  • At Wednesday, January 18, 2006 11:41:00 AM , Blogger .......... said...

    我们不可能只为自己而活,不能也不可以。

    只要和别人有接触或沟通,就必须顾及他人的感受。



    人在江湖,有时真的是身不有己。

    又在胡言乱语的雨!

    哈哈

     
  • At Wednesday, January 18, 2006 5:36:00 PM , Blogger Mickell said...

    Happiness is a choice that should not be dictated by our circumstances :)

     
  • At Wednesday, January 18, 2006 6:58:00 PM , Blogger lau hero said...

    Oldbeng
    你真的是变了, 封你做偶像

     
  • At Sunday, January 22, 2006 11:25:00 AM , Blogger Tracy said...

    Hmmm....I don't quite agree with your saying in this entry. Yes, we came into this world with nothing and can also leave with with nothing. But the lifespan of 60-80 yrs is to enjoy life isn't it?
    Achieving greater heights, power, money...then not to forget love, family, children and the list goes on....
    Isn't life suppose to enjoy the process and experiencing everything?
    Even I know till the end of my 60-80 yrs, I can bring with me nothing, but at least I enjoyed the process and die without regrets.

     

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