lim peh ka li kong 令伯卡你讲

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Tuesday, April 27, 2010

做人

令伯卡你讲

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做人其实不难 (让你人见人爱的28条葵花宝典) 红色是令伯的感想。

1、如果长得不好,那就让自己有才气;如果才气也没有,那就总是面带微笑 => 对极了

2、气质是关键。如果你追不上时尚,也不够新潮,那么最好还保持纯朴自然的风格。

3、与别人握手时,可以多捏一会儿,同时真诚而自然地看着对方的眼睛。=> 如果是美女,令伯会握更久一点。

4、不必什么都用 “我” 作主语。

5、不要向朋友借钱。 => 也不要借朋友钱。

6、不要 “逼” 客人看你的家庭相册。

7、与别人共乘德士时,最好抢先坐在司机旁边。

8、坚持在背后多说别人的好话,不必担心这些好话传不到当事人的耳朵里。

9、有人在你面前说某人的坏话时,你只微笑。

10、开自己的轿车出行,不要特地停下来和一个骑自行车的同事打招呼,人家会以为你在故意炫耀。=> 不同意,我不觉得有何不妥。

11、同事生病时,去探望他,很自然的坐在他的病床上,回家后再认真洗手。

12、过去的事,不要让人都知道。=> 有啥相干?不明白?

13、尊敬不喜欢你的人。=> 很难做得到吧?

14、对事不对人;或对事无情,对人要有情;或做人第一,做事第二。

15、自我批评总能能赢得信任,自我表扬则不然。

16、没有什么东西比围观者们更能提高你的保龄球的成绩了,所以,平常不要吝惜你的喝彩声。

17、在现实生活中,要懂得感恩,学会报恩。

18、榕树上的八哥爱讲话,只讲不听,结果乱成一团。要注意学会聆听。

19、尊重传达室里的师傅及搞卫生的阿姨。

20、说话的时候,请记住常用 “我们” 开头。

21、为每一位上台唱歌的人鼓掌。

22、有时要明知故问:你的钻戒很贵吧? 有时,即使想问也不能问,比如:女士,你多大了?

23、言多必失,人多的场合少说话。=> 朋友聚会则不然。

24、把未出口的 “不” 改成 “这需要时间”,“我尽力”,“我不确定”,“当我决定后,会给你打电话的”。

25、不要期望所有人都喜欢你,那是不可能的,让大多数人喜欢就是成功的表现。

26、记住:自己要喜欢自己。

27、即使只有一个人喝彩,也要认真表演。

28、如果一个帖子值得一看,那么你一定要回复、回应、留言,因为你的回复、回应、留言会给别人继续前进的勇气,会给人很大的激励,同时也会让人对你心存感激。

令伯讲完了
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11 Comments:

  • At Tuesday, April 27, 2010 1:14:00 PM , Blogger Ivy0901 said...

    7、与别人共乘德士时,最好抢先坐在司机旁边 ==〉〉司机身边的位置不用抢,一定有人会让给你。。。

     
  • At Tuesday, April 27, 2010 9:00:00 PM , Blogger kenwooi said...

    woops.. too bad i cant read =/

     
  • At Wednesday, April 28, 2010 10:35:00 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    all the bloggers fail no.12 becoz they love to tell of their past... the dirtier, the ritzier the better

    hiaoautie

     
  • At Wednesday, April 28, 2010 11:37:00 PM , Anonymous FML said...

    13、尊敬不喜欢你的人。=> 很难做得到吧?

    I think Jesus got say, love or respect your enemies. gotta agree becoz they are the only ones that will point out your shortcomings ~ so you know where you need to improve

    on contrary, we do need to be aware of those who keep showering us with praise or respect.

     
  • At Friday, April 30, 2010 12:25:00 AM , Blogger boh.tak.chek. said...

    "不要向朋友借钱。 => 也不要借朋友钱"

    我的朋友也曾经说过:钱借给朋友,是拿不回来的

     
  • At Friday, April 30, 2010 9:50:00 AM , Blogger Old Beng said...

    Ivy
    Ha ha also right. You back to blog again?

    Kenwooi
    Then go read my English posts la, thanks for dropping by.

    Hiao Auntie
    Welcome to the clan.

    FML
    But most of us like to hear the good things only....

    BTC
    Your friend experienced talk hor?

     
  • At Saturday, May 01, 2010 12:16:00 PM , Blogger c a r c a r said...

    actually i don quite und point 7... but i have a fren came back frm states, she did that when she share cab with us, can explain?

    i love tis post! simply awesome!

    #10 - well, this is a good point too, or just take it as a reminder. we do not know how other ppl may think (rider), so just continue to drive, unless you have eye contact with him, can just flash a smile.

    #12- my understanding is :

    let by gone be by gone, no point dwelling it again and again.

    or, ppl just not interested with our past, wat is most impt now is NOW.

    my most fav line is #14!

     
  • At Monday, May 03, 2010 9:55:00 AM , Blogger Old Beng said...

    CarCar
    The one sitting beside the Taxi driver usually will have to pay for the fares.

    Eh... I very kpo one, love to know others' past experiences and all...

    14 is indeed very interesting.

     
  • At Monday, June 28, 2010 11:50:00 PM , Blogger 子非魚 said...

    Q: 7、与别人共乘德士时,最好抢先坐在司机旁边。

    Ans:The one sitting beside the Taxi driver usually will have to pay for the fares.

    在汶萊我從沒坐過德士(這是有錢人才坐的,erh hm,太貴了)。好久以前,有一次自己在新加坡坐德士時就“不知道”跑去坐前面。那位德士司機竟然跟我談天時來一招很鄭重的握手介紹,嚇死我了,幸好是白天。

    後來我都不敢坐前面了。(坐後面一樣要付錢^^)

     
  • At Tuesday, June 29, 2010 5:46:00 PM , Blogger Old Beng said...

    子非鱼
    哇哈哈哈!!下次别再乱放电了。
    请教汶莱乘搭德士到底有多贵?

     
  • At Thursday, July 01, 2010 10:43:00 PM , Blogger 子非魚 said...

    漫天開價那種貴法。

    機場去酒店不到三十分鐘路聽説他們會要價BND100。

    如果去詩里亞我的老家,可能車費可以包租一輛巴士那種貴法。

    可能也是因爲需求少,所以沒辦法。

     

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