死
(旧著)
很小很小的时候,很骇怕许许多多的事情与人物。
怕黑、怕鬼、怕医生、怕吃药、怕警察甚至怕那位高喊 “卡郎古尼” 的老伯伯,就是不怕死。奇怪,可能对死亡一词很模糊吧,并不晓得害怕。
很多人都不怕死,(也许只是说说而已),其实死真的不可怕,特别是当死亡来得太突然,一点骇怕的感觉都没有。
当能够生存下去时,又有谁愿意死?不管什么难关,只要咬紧牙根,总会雨过天晴的。
所以千万别自寻死路,因为有些人根本连活的机会都没有。
知不知道有多少未曾成形的生命每天都被妈妈杀死,被堕掉。
每每看到年轻人自杀的新闻,心里总会觉得莫名的痛。蚂蚁则偷生,更何况身为人类的我们?
其实,人的生死实在是自己也作不了主,君不见,有许多大好青年在意外中丧生,真叫人觉得可惜。但,又能怎样?生死有命。
有一个很具争论性的问题-----当一个人患了不治之病,正在受苦,医生是否应当让病人减轻痛苦而替病人人道毁灭?
毕竟,死亡的来临对病人来讲只是时间上的先后罢了。
死,从某个角度来看,有时也是一种解脱!
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2007 后语:
既然不知死亡会在何时敲门,理应珍惜每分、每秒。
很小很小的时候,很骇怕许许多多的事情与人物。
怕黑、怕鬼、怕医生、怕吃药、怕警察甚至怕那位高喊 “卡郎古尼” 的老伯伯,就是不怕死。奇怪,可能对死亡一词很模糊吧,并不晓得害怕。
很多人都不怕死,(也许只是说说而已),其实死真的不可怕,特别是当死亡来得太突然,一点骇怕的感觉都没有。
当能够生存下去时,又有谁愿意死?不管什么难关,只要咬紧牙根,总会雨过天晴的。
所以千万别自寻死路,因为有些人根本连活的机会都没有。
知不知道有多少未曾成形的生命每天都被妈妈杀死,被堕掉。
每每看到年轻人自杀的新闻,心里总会觉得莫名的痛。蚂蚁则偷生,更何况身为人类的我们?
其实,人的生死实在是自己也作不了主,君不见,有许多大好青年在意外中丧生,真叫人觉得可惜。但,又能怎样?生死有命。
有一个很具争论性的问题-----当一个人患了不治之病,正在受苦,医生是否应当让病人减轻痛苦而替病人人道毁灭?
毕竟,死亡的来临对病人来讲只是时间上的先后罢了。
死,从某个角度来看,有时也是一种解脱!
=====
2007 后语:
既然不知死亡会在何时敲门,理应珍惜每分、每秒。
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10 Comments:
At Wednesday, February 07, 2007 5:44:00 PM , Whiskoffee said...
"既然不知死亡会在何时敲门,理应珍惜每分、每秒。"
How true...
At Thursday, February 08, 2007 8:53:00 AM , Anonymous said...
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At Thursday, February 08, 2007 9:32:00 AM , Old Beng said...
There are 2 comments left by "anti baby-killers" with contents involving "politics & govt".
Knowing my style, I had deleted them BUT I have also made certain changes in my (旧著).
At Thursday, February 08, 2007 1:19:00 PM , Mockingbird said...
不知死后上天堂还是下地狱那才需要怕死。
At Thursday, February 08, 2007 6:50:00 PM , 新怡 said...
你好,我是新怡!
我现在新。
我会去, 要去吗?
At Friday, February 09, 2007 12:04:00 AM , Anonymous said...
Death is good, becoz recognizing death will make us cherish living even more. unfortunately, most of us only know death they at their doorsteps
And i said recognizing / acknowledging death becoz if you afraid of death, your living won't be any much better as well.
At Friday, February 09, 2007 7:20:00 AM , Anonymous said...
误以为杀人放火的可以上天堂, 好事做尽的却会下地狱, 这种自我安慰式, 骗人式的"不怕死", 照我看, 不要也罢, Mickell, 你说对吗? :)
知道"死后上天堂还是下地狱"是由自己的果报来决定. 知道只要你众善奉行, 任何东西都阻止不了你上天堂; 反之, 如果你著恶都作, 任何东西都无法免你下地狱. 这样就不需要怕死.
所以佛说啦:
By ourselves is wrong done, by ourselves is pain endured (including the pain of going to hell).
By ourselves is wrong not done, by ourselves are we purified (including the joy of going to heaven).
No one saves us but ourselves (meaning, there is no god).
No one can and no one may (because there is no god).
Buddhas merely show the way (meaning Buddha is a teacher of gods and men - he taught those gods (more than one) that they did not create the world (which arose out of natural scientific principles), that those self-proclaiimed gods are under an illusion that they are the creator and the judge, but in reality, gods are subjected to the natural law of cause and effect and cannot save themselves, let alone others. No one, including buddha can save others and therefore buddhas "merely show the way").
Mickell, 知道你死后的遭遇由自己主宰, 不是由某些外在的东西支配, 你就不比怕死了 :) I hope the above enlightened you so that you do not have to go from blog to blog preaching back and forth, and so that you will no longer be afraid of death. Sincerely, A reader.
At Friday, February 09, 2007 10:42:00 AM , Old Beng said...
Mickell
对某些人,或许如此吧。
新怡
妳是说“博会II”? 我想我不可能走得开到KL,你们玩得开心些。
Slurp
I agreed that recognizing death is good if it makes you cherish more of what you have currently.
Anonymous
A long comment, need time to digest the content.
At Friday, February 09, 2007 12:25:00 PM , Mockingbird said...
杀人放火而死前却没有悔改当然上不了天堂。废话。
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