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Saturday, March 24, 2007

青梅竹马

(旧著)

常在电影与电视节目中见到一对对的男女,从小认识,一起玩耍、一起成长。然后,恋爱、结婚直至年老。

有人说青梅竹马的恋人是美好的一对。不是吗,从小就认识。随着日子的流逝,感情也日渐深厚。(如无变化,无意外的话。)

只要对方一举手、一展眉、一个眼神的交换便能令对方会意。就这样眉来眼去,经过了一段长长的爱情长跑,双双走入教堂,步入人生另一个阶段。

青梅竹马的感情真能使人心心相印,白头偕老,直至天荒地老吗?

其实,感情的坚固与否根本与时间的长短无关。人的感情说变就变,不需理由与借口。

想想,也为那些青梅竹马的恋人感到悲哀,长时间的在一起,什么新鲜感也被岁月磨淡。更何况,彼此又没得选择,仿佛被迫从一而终。

凡事都得经过了选择与比较,才分得出好劣。

青梅竹马?好坏因人而异。

但肯定不是我心目中的那杯茶!

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2007 后语:

以前的人受媒人之托,结婚后往往孩子生一堆,白头偕老。

现在的人自由恋爱,选择一多,反而。。。

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11 Comments:

  • At Sunday, March 25, 2007 4:46:00 AM , Blogger 阿祥 said...

    如无意外的意思是。。。比如不出车祸是吗?

     
  • At Monday, March 26, 2007 12:44:00 AM , Anonymous slurp! said...

    back then, people & life are much simpler. so this is truly achievable. I think that why people were much happier & content, which i felt isn't really a bad thing.

    however, now in our modern society, people are how easily swayed by materialistic comforts, fame & choices. most notably, FREEDOM of choices which i believe have been pretty eroded.

    so generally speaking , 青梅竹马 or not, depends if you got the 5C hahahaha ...

     
  • At Monday, March 26, 2007 12:21:00 PM , Blogger Old Beng said...

    阿祥
    如无意外的意思是。。。没有料不到的遇。

    Slurp
    You got 5C bo? Me got:

    Coocoo
    Cum cum cheng
    Clumsy
    Cock Eye
    Chio-bo

     
  • At Wednesday, March 28, 2007 10:10:00 PM , Anonymous rk.nakatani said...

    I dont believe in those Qing mei zhu ma...cos ...my ex-b/f was....but we couldnt go together when we grew up, finally he married with others...

     
  • At Thursday, March 29, 2007 12:12:00 AM , Blogger Old Beng said...

    Rk.Nakatani
    Guess love is never predictable.
    Don't feel sad when it's over now;
    Feel happy cos you have had good times together once;

     
  • At Thursday, March 29, 2007 1:38:00 AM , Blogger The Horny Bitch said...

    My qing mei zu ma bf died in accident. Heart pain but gotta accept the fact.. Got chance i also want to marry a stranger..

     
  • At Thursday, March 29, 2007 11:59:00 AM , Blogger Old Beng said...

    HB
    Marry a stranger? Only possible last time, now everything also must know well before any commitment done.

    Background; Career; Family; Medical history; 5C; etc

    Without knowing any of the above, will you REALLY marry him, a total stranger?

     
  • At Friday, March 30, 2007 1:33:00 PM , Blogger Mockingbird said...

    现代的自由恋爱跟以前被安排的婚礼的确有一些矛盾。以前的夫妇可以在结婚当天才首次见面,一生一世。现在的人给他们自己选配偶,反而经常闹离婚。我想原因应该是现代人比较没有忍让的精神。动不动就要分手,绝交。以前的人比较宽容,比较有容忍的礼仪。

     
  • At Sunday, April 01, 2007 10:52:00 PM , Anonymous slurp! said...

    ahhhh~ 5C of coz i got la :D
    - posb Card
    - ntuc Card
    - cash Card
    - eslink Card
    - sim Card
    hahahaha~~~paiseh paiseh, douch have Doraemon magnet Card :P

     
  • At Monday, April 09, 2007 1:56:00 AM , Blogger Whiskoffee said...

    Choices...

    You can really choose only when you are a great catch.

    If you are not, like yours truly, then you are more on the shelf for other to choose and not vice versa...

    Hmmm...

     
  • At Monday, April 09, 2007 11:18:00 AM , Blogger Old Beng said...

    Mockingbird
    So, you do agree that having more choices is sometimes not a blessing at all?

    Slurp
    Wow, you and I also same same got 5C ;p

    Whiskoffee
    In this world, everyone will find the someone meant for him/her, it´s only whether they find each other timely. Jia you.

     

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