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Tuesday, September 12, 2006

(旧著)

曾经何时,泪水早已远离了我们的生活。甭说哭泣,连大笑的滋味也早已淡忘了。

记得小时候,哭是我独一无二的绝招。双眼一弯、鼻子一皱、嘴巴一张,“ 哗!” 立刻晴天霹雳,非半个多小时不会终止。

现在,不可能会再有机会嚎哭一番了,永不会。

现在,根本被生活压得透不过气来,连嗜好都一一割爱,更别说流泪这玩意儿。

最佩服那些男明星如周润发与万梓良,他们最出色的演技是在他们演到激动时,双眼布满红丝,眼泪在眼眶里凝聚却又不流下来,而让我们在镜头里见到他们欲泣还忍的样子。

身为一名大男生是不适合哭泣的,有什么会使自己大哭一场?工作失败?从头来过而已。失恋?再找一个罢了。现在连女子都很少会痛哭,更何况是男子。

每个人都被工作磨得似金刚不坏之身,只求不倒下,那敢奢求有机会大哭一番?

放工回家,冲个热水澡,最渴求拥有的是那温暖的大床。就算你这一天受了多大的气,隔天还是得照样上班去,除非你不打算做下去。

泪是什么东东?人人放工后早已累得不知所以。如果有女朋友的话,还得打醒精神舍命陪她,那还会有剩余的精力去哭泣?

就算真想哭,也早已欲哭无泪了。

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2006 后语:

韩国男明星的哭功一流,偶尔瞄了一下查某人看的韩剧,发现权相宇原来是 “ 喊包王 ”,他的哭功无人能及,叹为观止。

当年写这篇文章的时候,很肯定男人不会流泪,却在人生起了一些变化,才惊觉原来男人也是会流泪的。。。

男人有泪不轻弹
只是未到伤心处

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11 Comments:

  • At Tuesday, September 12, 2006 3:28:00 PM , Blogger Kenny Ng said...

    My last worst crying was 9 years ago when my grandma passed away, I was there until her last breath. Yesterday I cried again when I dream something about my mom. I never cried when I broke off with my ex, I just frus that time.

     
  • At Tuesday, September 12, 2006 8:43:00 PM , Blogger 蓝月 said...

    在我阿麽的丧礼,第一次看我父亲哭。他一边哭,一边告诉我,他没有妈妈了。看到父亲这样,心很痛。

     
  • At Tuesday, September 12, 2006 11:01:00 PM , Blogger anonymous said...

    當年, 你太年輕, 有許多的"很肯定", "不可能". 對人對物都黑白分明..
    如今, 經歲月的蹂躪/摧殘/磨練, 你終於了悟世上的事是少有絕對的.
    這種人生領悟是須要時間浸潤的. 大凡青少年都須經此過程, 你我豈能例外 :)

     
  • At Thursday, September 14, 2006 1:20:00 AM , Anonymous slurp! said...

    i read somewhere (on TCM - traditional chinese medicine) that each of our organ are associated with an emotion.
    joy = heart
    anger = liver
    sadness/grief = lungs
    pensiveness = spleen
    fear = kidneys

    so accordingly, excessive crying should hurts our lungs which may results in some illness??

    anyway, crying just like angry is an emotional outburst which relates to losing control of yourself.

    so shed a tear if you must don't ever be overcome by emotion.

     
  • At Thursday, September 14, 2006 2:18:00 AM , Blogger platformshoes said...

    i am too lazy to read in chinese... next!

     
  • At Thursday, September 14, 2006 10:10:00 AM , Anonymous sÞ¡ηηєє said...

    男人哭吧哭吧哭吧 不是罪
    再强的人也有权利去疲惫
    微笑背后若只剩心碎
    做人何必惊得那么狼狈
    男人哭吧哭吧哭吧 不是罪
    尝尝阔别已久眼泪的滋味
    就算下雨也是一种美
    不如好好把握这个机会
    痛哭一回 ...

    - 刘德华

    my fav song all time even i'm not a male

     
  • At Thursday, September 14, 2006 11:48:00 AM , Blogger old beng said...

    Kenny
    Yes, the pain of losing our loved ones is unbearable :( but life gotta move on. 活得更好才算是对他们的回报。:)

    蓝月
    生离死别的悲痛是笔墨所无法形容的。
    当一个至亲的人离开我们时,我们的人生就象是少了那么一块,我们的世界已不再完整。。。

    Anonymous
    你说得对。
    年纪越大
    头发越稀
    横肉越多
    脾气越少
    胆子越小
    日子越近
    心灵越清

    Slurp!
    Anything excessive is never good. Moderation is the key word. BTW, I am gonna missed your blog...

    Platformshoes
    =_="""

    Spinnee
    Me prefer Andy to act :p

     
  • At Friday, September 15, 2006 7:50:00 PM , Blogger The One They Proclaimed Qiang said...

    The toughest part of crying is actually, crying itself.
    I hate crying. That explains why I am totally obssessed with laughing.

     
  • At Friday, September 15, 2006 8:31:00 PM , Blogger blueapple said...

    哇。。。

    我喜欢你的华文写作。

    很有水准!

    Erm... my own opinion la.. keke~

     
  • At Friday, September 15, 2006 9:44:00 PM , Anonymous 兽医 said...

    “男儿有泪不轻弹”、“女人才爱哭鼻子”,女人的眼泪让人同情,男人的眼泪让人反感。女人难受可以哭。女人越哭越显得小鸟依人。男人一哭不是窝囊,就是废物,所以男人不敢哭。

    就算要流也要流的吝啬!或把泪珠儿咽回肚子里!

    兽医还是一条硬汉子,死性不改,流血不留泪!或许兽医血液里还流着旧传统,英雄本色的思想!

     
  • At Monday, September 18, 2006 9:17:00 AM , Blogger old beng said...

    Qiang
    Yes, I agree that laughter is better than crying.

    Blueapple
    Kam siah kam siah :)

    兽医
    》》兽医还是一条硬汉子
    年轻真好!

     

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